{"id":324,"date":"2013-11-11T04:14:12","date_gmt":"2013-11-11T04:14:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/livinganyway.com\/wp\/?p=324"},"modified":"2016-02-06T17:39:17","modified_gmt":"2016-02-06T17:39:17","slug":"being-clear-about-being-grateful","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/livinganyway.com\/wp\/2013\/11\/11\/being-clear-about-being-grateful\/","title":{"rendered":"Being clear about being grateful"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We visited our favorite hot springs last week. There&#8217;s a hot pool that&#8217;s very hot indeed. When I alternate between that and the cold pool, preferably dipping several times, it becomes quite a fabulous experience.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_325\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-325\" style=\"width: 83px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/livinganyway.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Angel_statue-hokey.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-325 \" alt=\"Stone angel with hands clasped in prayer, standing on a pillar, sun like a glorious halo\" src=\"https:\/\/livinganyway.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Angel_statue-hokey.jpg\" width=\"83\" height=\"120\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-325\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Halleluiah!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Whether it&#8217;s the lymph getting going properly for a change, or toxins (the few that are left) getting sucked out of my system, or my autonomic system finally getting a clue and just taking a break, or possibly all that and something more, I have no idea. But it can be <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">really good.<\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_286\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-286\" style=\"width: 142px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/livinganyway.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/glee.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-286 \" alt=\"gleeful woman grinning, sitting in a sailboat cockpit, sunny water behind her\" src=\"https:\/\/livinganyway.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/glee-236x300.png\" width=\"142\" height=\"180\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-286\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">REALLY good!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I did my dips and bounced gently on the balls of my feet in the hot pool, overflowing with something like gratitude. I&#8217;m no fool (I just take an off-road approach to life) &#8230; offering gratitude works, even with a conception of spirituality based more on quantum physics than religious dogma.<\/p>\n<p>Things go better when I&#8217;m classy enough to express whatever gratitude I feel.<\/p>\n<p>However, it has to be &#8220;true enough to write,&#8221; my ultimate litmus test of sincerity. (That really is my key phrase when I&#8217;m thinking about truth, writing, or both.)<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/livinganyway.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/George_Goodwin_Kilburne_Writing_a_letter_home_1875.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-216 aligncenter\" alt=\"George_Goodwin_Kilburne_Writing_a_letter_home_1875\" src=\"https:\/\/livinganyway.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/George_Goodwin_Kilburne_Writing_a_letter_home_1875-268x300.jpg\" width=\"188\" height=\"210\" srcset=\"https:\/\/livinganyway.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/George_Goodwin_Kilburne_Writing_a_letter_home_1875-268x300.jpg 268w, https:\/\/livinganyway.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/George_Goodwin_Kilburne_Writing_a_letter_home_1875-134x150.jpg 134w, https:\/\/livinganyway.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/George_Goodwin_Kilburne_Writing_a_letter_home_1875-200x223.jpg 200w, https:\/\/livinganyway.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/George_Goodwin_Kilburne_Writing_a_letter_home_1875-90x100.jpg 90w, https:\/\/livinganyway.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/George_Goodwin_Kilburne_Writing_a_letter_home_1875.jpg 472w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 188px) 100vw, 188px\" \/><\/a>There&#8217;s no fooling the All, because I&#8217;m part of it and I know the truth, even when I don&#8217;t want to.<\/p>\n<p>Letting my head fall back into the welcoming warmth, I thought a moment, letting the feeling swirl through me like water.<\/p>\n<p><em>Grateful for my life?<\/em><br \/>\nI have to be honest (though it may mean I have an inferior soul or something) &#8230; I&#8217;d love to be. I think that somehow I ought to be. But really, when you get right down to it&#8230; too many caveats.<\/p>\n<p><em>Grateful for this day?<\/em><br \/>\nWell, y&#8217;know, there was too much of the day left that could go wrong. Experience has been too strong a teacher to make me grateful for something before it&#8217;s in the bag.<\/p>\n<p><em>Grateful for this moment?<\/em><br \/>\nAh yes, there we go.<\/p>\n<p>I felt my spine let go of the last knot.<\/p>\n<p>I could say, without hesitation and with perfect integrity, that I was definitely grateful for this moment. Completely, unwaveringly glad to have it. I was truly thankful for that heavenly bit of space-time I&#8217;d found myself in.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_215\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-215\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/livinganyway.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Crab_Nebula-crop.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-215 \" alt=\"Crab_Nebula-crop\" src=\"https:\/\/livinganyway.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Crab_Nebula-crop-300x261.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"261\" srcset=\"https:\/\/livinganyway.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Crab_Nebula-crop-300x261.jpg 300w, https:\/\/livinganyway.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Crab_Nebula-crop-150x130.jpg 150w, https:\/\/livinganyway.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Crab_Nebula-crop-200x174.jpg 200w, https:\/\/livinganyway.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Crab_Nebula-crop-90x78.jpg 90w, https:\/\/livinganyway.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Crab_Nebula-crop.jpg 362w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-215\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Heavenly, beautiful&#8230; grateful for it<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>The moment stretched and smiled and wrapped me in blissful arms. It made me stronger and more content, and I faced the bumps and mild insults of the rest of the day with fairly unruffled peace.<\/p>\n<p>It turned out to be a good day. A day to be grateful for.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We visited our favorite hot springs last week. There&#8217;s a hot pool that&#8217;s very hot indeed. When I alternate between that and the cold pool, preferably dipping several times, it becomes quite a fabulous experience. 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